If you think you have a peculiar child who does not fit the diagnosis of autism, these words can help you.
The experience of having your child in your arms for the first time after they are born cannot be described. It is a beautiful experience: we imagine all the things that this baby is going to do during her life, we have dreams, expectations and in that moment everything is magical. But then this baby grows up, and we begin to see that we have to adjust our expectations since, like us, our child is not perfect. However, many of us notice that our child is not only not perfect, but there are things that make him very peculiar, so to speak. Our instincts tell us that something is not right, and after taking it to the doctor and specialists, many tell us that there is nothing wrong and others tell us that our child has autism.
It is important to recognize that many of these children, who are undiagnosed or diagnosed with autism, have a different problem and require professional help. These words are not a substitute for professional consultation and evaluation. My intention is to educate a little more and perhaps help some of you who are wondering why your child is so sensitive to sounds, cannot stand labels on clothing and throws a huge tantrum every time he has to be in a sea of people . Your child may have what is called sensory processing disorder, which in effect means that he has a hard time receiving and organizing what his five senses are receiving. Here are some ways to recognize it:
1. Extreme sensitivity
All of these children have extreme sensitivity in some or all five senses. For example, many children are bothered by sunlight, they complain if they are watching television, they cannot stand the sound of the blender or vacuum cleaner, they do not like to touch sticky things, it is a challenge to give them a bath since the temperature has to being exact and the simplest smell makes them nauseous. It is important to recognize that the reaction is not homogeneous; that is, one may be more bothered by smells and another by touch, but they have at least one problem with one of these five senses.
2. Anxiety with strangers
Many children are naturally shy and do not like to be around strangers. These reactions are normal and even good. But children with this problem not only don’t like it, it causes them panic. It is normal to see how these children find it very difficult to go to places where there are many people or they have to be in physical proximity with people they do not know.
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3. Problems with psychomotor development
While not all children have severe problems, it is common to see them have problems using a bicycle, writing, throwing a ball, or using scissors. It is important to mention that most of these children do not experience problems running or jumping, which makes it more difficult to recognize.
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As I said at the beginning, these words should never supplant the evaluation of a professional, but it is my hope that if you have doubts about your child, this article will help you make the decision to evaluate him and finally get rid of your doubts. It should be mentioned that there are treatments for this problem, and since children with this condition begin with their occupational therapies, the results tend to be excellent.