When the ghost of infidelity begins to fight to become real …
Infidelity is a “ghost” that haunts any relationship. It is always present, it never leaves, but it is up to each person to dare to do so or to prefer to “bet” on the person they have at their side, the one they chose to share life and dreams. Some studies reveal that men are the most likely to fall into this “temptation” – although this is not always entirely true.
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If you begin to suspect that your husband might be making this “move” on you, there are five aspects of his behavior and habits that could help you know that he is about to be unfaithful to you. Review them and keep them at hand, because they say well that it is better to be safe than sorry !:
1. He no longer pays as much attention to you as before
Before I asked things like: How was your day? What happened with your friend X? Anyway, some details that I knew were important to you, but suddenly stopped asking. This is also noticeable when you tell him about a problem or situation in which you would like to feel his support or for him to give you his opinion, but he does not say anything about it, he is even uncomfortable with the subject.
2. You have changed some of your “routine” habits
In the past, he would go straight home from the office, and on late he goes out very often. Before he was not interested in the least in physical exercise and now he is in a super fitness attitude ; Anyway, all those things that today are no longer “normal” will always speak of something or someone making you change. Do not fall into despair and paranoia, but pay close attention to all these attitudes!
3. You start to worry about your physique
Do you remember how he used to fix himself when he went out with you? Obviously, that stage is behind him, and now he doesn’t pay much attention to it; However, suddenly he has begun to groom himself as he no longer did, he seeks to look more attractive and even begins to give some importance to his appearance, how he looks; In short, this is a sign that you are looking for someone else (not you, it is obvious) to see it well.
4. Gets nervous when you talk about the two of you
When you discuss aspects of his life together, what the future will be like, the plans you have with him or what you think about your relationship, his hands start to sweat, you notice some discomfort, he does not look you in the eye or does the impossible to divert attention from the talk to another point, there is no doubt! He is seriously thinking about cheating on you or is even one step away from doing so.
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5. It rejects you in the intimate
Intimate chemistry is a basic element in the couple, and although it is not the most important thing, it will always represent a crucial point to continue maintaining a relationship in good condition. If they haven’t had any intimate moments lately, and even when you’ve hinted at it, he is cold and has even rejected you, that speaks of the lack of attraction towards you. And why does it happen? Because surely there is someone else with whom you are interested in reaching intimacy to this degree.
It’s not a law, but it could be signs
Something you should know is that the chemistry within each couple is completely different, and what we have just presented you is not a law, but it is a fact that you, better than anyone, could detect the moment when things change between you two. It’s just a matter of clearing your mind, and if in addition to behaving “weird” with you, several of these points are met, your relationship could be in danger.