Would you like to be able to figure out if someone really loves you? True love requires several important steps that you cannot ignore … read on to understand.
Do you know one of those people who “fall in love” every time they meet someone new? These people profess their eternal love for their new partner at the same time that they tell you how the old one really was not what they thought. Do they really have the ability to fall in love so many times? Or do you take the meaning of love very lightly?
Of course, the second answer is much more true than the first. True love is a difficult delicacy to cultivate in this world where we want everything to work lightly. When you meet someone new, what you feel is attraction, which sometimes, with the right measures, can become true love. But how can you tell if it becomes real love or if it is just an attraction? Look for these characteristics in your relationship that will help you recognize the difference.
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If someone tells you they love you within a week of meeting you, they like you a lot. However, he is taking things lightly and does not know you well enough to be able to truly tell you that he loves you. Knowing the inside of a person is necessary to love them, and this cannot be done in such a short time.
Flatter your being, not just your beauty
All women love to hear that we are physically attracted to our partner, but do you know what is a clear sign that he is in love with you? When he sees beyond your physical beauty and admires other aspects of you, such as your temperament, your diligence or your sense of humor.
Accept the person you are
True love understands that you are an imperfect person, and does not “stop loving you” because you make a slight mistake or do not meet their expectations.
Understand that everything changes
In every relationship, as in every person, there are stages, some good and some bad. True love flows through them and accepts that people change interests, feelings and even personality. If he tells you that he stopped loving you because “you weren’t like that before,” he never really did or had an unrealistic expectation of you.
Wants to take care of you
Instinctively, men have a protective sense that kicks in when they really are in love with you. When he loves you, he cares about your well-being and your safety. He asks how you got home or offers you company if you are alone. Don’t underestimate these details, even if you feel like you don’t need them, as they show that he really cares about you.
Not proud when it comes to you
When a man really loves you, he puts his pride in the background and looks for you even after you’ve argued. He does everything he can to fix the situation because he understands that his love for you is more important than his pride.
His time with you is for you
He doesn’t get distracted by his phone or someone else when he’s with you. He focuses on you and shows you that he really values the time he can spend with you.
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Share your food
This detail may seem very minimal, but a man who loves you will give you a taste of his plate or will offer you the last bite of his dessert. Don’t underestimate this action! In a study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology, sharing food was found to demonstrate feelings of intimacy, care, and romance in a partner. Also, if he saves the last or best bite for you, it is an obvious sign that he always wants the best for you over himself.
If your man does all of these things, value him, as you can be sure that he really loves you.