What really makes a human being beautiful is not his appearance, it is his way of being.
“True beauty springs from the heart and lives in the eyes”
We all come to a point in life where we want to be more attractive. This occurs because we believe that professional or love success will be greater if it stands out from the so-called “heap.”
In this way, many people struggle daily to highlight their physical appearance, there is nothing wrong with it. The problem arises when they leave their way of being in the background. In this way, we get to find people who are really beautiful physically speaking, but hateful in their treatment.
There is nothing wrong with being handsome, don’t get me wrong. But if, in addition to being, you are kind, honest and cheerful, then let me tell you that you are really irresistible.
There are many aspects that make a person irresistible; for example: that you have confidence and your treatment is kind, I think that nobody can resist someone like that.
With this in mind, here are some of the things that can make someone irresistible to others. We all have these characteristics, they should only be strengthened; This in order not only to feel better about others, but also to feel better about ourselves.
A person with the ability to perceive how those who accompany him feel is highly valued within his circle of friends. The reason is that a person with this quality is able to realize how his friend feels ; that is, it is empathetic.
Being aware of the feelings and emotions of others makes you irresistible, because few people are able to “read” others and put themselves in their place.
To become more noticeable, try to notice slight mood swings; furthermore, it shows legitimate interest in the reasons for its decline. Little by little, it will be easier for you to realize how others feel.
One of the qualities that is most lacking in today’s world is the honesty. Nobody wants to have in their life a person who lies or cheats, and whoever does it ends up alone and despised.
An honest person is someone from whom betrayal is not expected. They know how to be good friends and give advice out of their righteousness, and not out of a desire to please. It’s really easy to trust someone like that, even when love is over. This is because he will never be unfaithful and will go straight ahead, showing that he no longer loves his partner, and in that way he avoids deception.
Be an attentive person or helpfulit is attractive because it shows zero selfish interests in helping others. In addition to this, he is friendly and whenever he can help he does it, whether it is listening attentively when someone needs company, giving a hug or advice on time that are always very successful.
Who doesn’t enjoy spending time with someone who knows how to make people laugh? I do not mean that he is a clown willing to play tricks to win the applause of his acquaintances, he is not.
A funny person knows how to say funny things in a pleasant talk, he does not get bored with his comments, and he is even witty in the good sense of the word. They are easy to love people because their good spirits are contagious and make people feel comfortable in their company.
Person loyalit is incapable of deception and falsehood. It is easy to trust someone loyal because their flag is the truth. In addition, it is characterized because it never lacks itself, it is straight in its beliefs and consistent with its values and principles.
You can trust someone loyal with closed eyes because they will not go around telling your secrets, telling lies or gossiping about you and they will always tell you the truth even if it is difficult for you to hear.
Someone positive is aware of the good and bad things in life; however, she prefers to see the bright side of things because she knows very well that nothing beneficial comes from complaining or denying.
The positive peopleThey infect you with the desire to see the world through their lenses. They teach you to be resilient and to see the glass as half full instead of half empty.
By being with someone who infects you with joy, your life begins to change, because the energy that comes from it is irresistible. Their good spirits make us not want to detach ourselves from them, in the good sense of the word.
7 Persistent and patient
The perseverance and patience go hand in hand, because someone who makes an effort must be able to know how to wait calmly for their effort to bear fruit.
A persistent person knows what hard work is, effort and that is why he knows what success is enjoyed after effort. Someone who is able to dedicate time and put effort into a goal is someone who strives in affective relationships of all kinds. Therefore, he knows how to love well and give everything of himself in favor of the relationship. This also makes a person very irresistible.
We are not going to fool ourselves, finding someone who looks at the little things you like feels very good. It is irresistible to know that your partner or friend did not forget a special date, or realized that you need a word of encouragement or a hug.
If you are not of that type, you can always use a notebook to write down memorable dates or give a flower or a sweet from time to time without it being a special day; That way, you will leave marks on the life of the person you want to attract.
9 Take care of yourself
Although physical appearance can be temporary when relationships deepen, it is important to personal care. Nobody wants to be around someone who does not wash or smell bad.
It is not about wearing designer clothes or wearing make-up like for a 24/7 show. It is more a matter of a personal presentation be neat. Clean shoes, well presented nails and a good hairstyle can make a difference. You can be very handsome, but if you are not clean, no one will come near.
Being irresistible is not as complicated as it sounds, you just have to have a true interest in achieving it and working on it. You really will do better than before when it comes to having friends and a happy partner.