Your husband expresses that he loves you not only when he tells you, but when, in everyday life, many experiences are experienced that show how much he would do for you.
The love of a couple is what lays the foundation for a family. We all long to feel deeply loved, but as the years go by in marriage, we think that love wears off. How can we know if the flame of love is still burning?
It is true that falling in love has a short life span, and that passion wears off as the years go by. ButLove is another thing, and there are many ways to express this sublime feeling, beyond hugs, kisses and a romantic dinner and gifts.
If you have been together for a while, you will surely have had some friction, arguments and lawsuits from time to time. However, you know that the love they have is deep, because it manifests itself on many occasions, in the least expected way.
Your husband expresses that he loves you not only when he tells you, but when, in everyday life, many experiences are experienced that show how much he would do for you. If some of the actions on this list seem common to you, then your husband is saying “I love you” even though you may not always notice:
1 He does what he does not want
Take out the trash, clean the dishes, accompany you to a jazz concert, go to a meeting of your co-workers, or simply take the dog for a walk. Your husband is saying that he loves you when he agrees to do things that may not be entirely to his liking, but they know you please. That’s love.
2 Access to watch your favorite TV program
In many homes, the control of the TV is held by men. But your husband is one of those who says “honey, what are we looking at?”, And lets you choose. Sometimes it will be by mutual agreement, but other times he simply agrees to watch that series that does not convince him so much, but that they can share. She just wants to see you happy.
3 Cooperate so that you have your “day off”
She knows how hard you work and how much you need an afternoon with friends. Your husband tells you that he loves you when he never makes “buts” or excuses and takes care to help organize everything so that you can take your well-deserved rest. He takes care of the children, picks them up from school and prepares dinner. If that’s not love, what is?
4 He is waiting to please you
Everything is done thinking about how you will feel and your well-being. Your husband seeks to see you happy and that is why he seeks to please you. It worries her to know that you feel bad about a situation, so she will always want you to feel at ease. Whether it’s remodeling the house, taking those dream family vacations or simply giving you some caresses on the couch after a hard day at work.
5 Collaborate with chores
Your husband does not “help” you, he collaborates. He knows that you are a team and that both he and you have responsibilities to fulfill in the family. He says “I love you” when he thinks about the shopping list, makes dinner, takes care of the baby, and cleans up what he sees dirty. And know that that attitude makes you fall in love.
6 Before making any decision, he consults you
Your opinion is extremely important to him. Therefore, any decision is consulted with you, because they know that together they will decide the best. Trust yourself and that is an indisputable sign of love.
7 Always speak well of yourself to everyone
Your husband admires you and speaks highly of you. She tells them what a good mother you are and how caring and dedicated you are as a wife. Although they argue on some occasions, and although he is not always effusive in his demonstrations of love, you know how much he loves you because he has no problem showing it in public.
8 He makes you feel his life partner
You are in all plans. She loves your company and you feel how she enjoys being with you. He tells you what plans he has for the family and dreams of fulfilling them with you. It includes you, trusts your opinion, and makes you feel important. In this way he shows you the great love he feels for you.
Sometimes you may feel sad that your husband is not overly romantic or creative in showing his love. But she loves you, and she shows it day by day with every detail in which she wants you to feel happy.
Having such a husband is a blessing. Thank you every day for all the love you put into your actions and how hard you try to see you happy. Even if you don’t always notice it, he loves you madly and just wants to see you smile.