The art of true love is based on teamwork. Are they trying?
I feel like you’re not listening! You should try to understand! Why am I the one who has to give in? Many phrases and questions like these are common to say in marital relationships. For more love, affection and understanding that exists in a marriage, there will always be different ideologies to defend, causing disagreements.
However, any conflict no matter how big or small it may seem, work and communication as a couple, will make them find the ideal point to resolve their disagreements. In this way, promote union and relationship.
Do you team up with your partner?
The fundamental step to solidify a relationship so that it does not look fragile and insecure, is the teamwork. Since the couple is a team, an ideal complement, for which they have decided to work together to achieve their goals, such as love, well-being and happiness.
It is about getting the best out of the other, enhancing their virtues and qualities, using them to benefit a common project, which could be family stability. In this work there is no jealousy, competition, power games, selfishness or authority, on the contrary, there must be patience, eating, constancy and the desire to be united.
How to work as a team
We must all set individual goals, as part of our identity; however, for a marital relationship to be successful, there must be joint goals. I mean those hopes, dreams and challenges that make couples stay together. Having children, traveling, acquiring a good, starting a business, are some examples.
Talking with your partner about the wishes of both, they will put them to work as a team. But to achieve them effectively, it is recommended to carry out an action plan.
How are they going to achieve it? What does each one need to do? In this way, make clear the path they should follow. All the functions that are delegated to each other, must be in accordance with the skills, knowledge and skills of the couple.
It is a great challenge and challenge, as it involves how you know your loved one and how we recognize and value their efforts.
It may be that your partner is the provider of your home, or that you also contribute to the family economy. No matter what the case is, the fundamental thing is to understand that all income received from both him and yours should be used for the common good.
Working as a team regarding the economy is about reaching agreements where the two of you commit to maintaining or improving your lifestyle. Thinking about the present and the future; It is worth spending on individual tastes, however, never putting financial stability at risk.
A practical way to work as a team is when the two of you know the monetary flows, that is, make a list of income and expenses, with the aim of managing the family economy in an ideal way.
Good parenting is a reflection of excellent teamwork. In this case, both of you are responsible for their development and happiness. For this reason, there must be a golden rule in the couple, which they must follow to the letter; I mean to always make decisions together, to avoid that the children see disagreements between the parents, since it will cause them to be confused or to take sides for one or the other.
4 Assuming it is very exhausting (on both sides)
Women often complain that there are many responsibilities under our weight, such as housework, caring for, educating children and maintaining a good relationship with the husband, as well as taking care of him and others. However, just like you, your partner also has responsibilities to fulfill to provide safety and protection.
The idea is to avoid having conflicts due to the degree of responsibilities that each one has; For this reason, it is necessary to work as a team and thus achieve lightening the mutual burdens. Maybe he can babysit while you sleep for a bit, or you can tidy up his toolbox so your partner doesn’t have to, to name one example.
5 Love relationship
Teamwork is so important when we talk about love, trust, respect and communication in a marriage. Since it is impossible to love someone when what is expected is not received, as my grandmother used to say “not even by force shoes fit.”
For love to flourish and last over the years, both in good and bad situations, the two of you must work on renewing your love and intimacy ,so much with the details, surprises, affective demonstrations and so on. It’s about sacrificing, giving in, pleasing, and staying in love.
Health is vital to be well, to be able to work and give the best of oneself, without it, we are really nothing. Because of the great love that unites couples, we must work as a team for the health of each one. I mean to take care of the couple, not only in illness, but in daily care.
As well as preparing nutritious and healthy food, and avoiding stress or worries. It is about working as a team so that physical and mental health is not affected and therefore the relationship goes wonderfully.
7 in adversity
In a marital relationship it is forbidden to throw away all the efforts that you have built together or to be easily overcome; for the simple fact of experiencing bad times and facing tough problems in life.
As my husband says, terrible experiences are trials that we have to overcome together. In this case, motivation is the secret to teamwork. When you manage to motivate your partner and make her understand that there are positive things in every situation, your relationship will strengthen.
Success in marriage is very difficult to achieve without teamwork. One cannot go a different path from that of the couple, since they have goals and dreams that both of them want to conquer because of the love they have. Teamwork is love, complicity, well-being and happiness in the couple!