It does not matter the cause of the separation or argument that you have had with your partner. When there is true love, everything can be forgiven. Discover these 5 effective steps to recover your partner.
Many marriages end their relationship, because they are unable to express their feelings, letting pride and ego take over. They open the doors to emotions such as: anger, anger and fury, which end up seriously hurting the partner they love.
Words are as powerful as actions, they can destroy in a second all the good that you have done in your relationship. That is why it is so important to learn to control emotions in any fight with your partner.
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When a person gets angry and decides to end the relationship, despite loving his partner, the first memory that will come to mind will be to remember and associate all the negative experiences of that person.
Know how the mind works
Think for a moment. Why is it that our mind always remembers negative experiences more easily? Now, it is important that you understand that if whenever you meet your partner or call him, the first thing you do is claim him, then there will be no opportunity for him to remember good times from you.
When there is true love, there is nothing that cannot be forgiven; remember that we all make mistakes and it is humbling to recognize our mistakes. So if you want to get your partner back after a big argument that led to a separation; they will surely get back together.
How to do it?
1. Try to generate good moments and not bad ones
So when your partner remembers you and thinks of you, the first thing they relate to is the good times. Forget about complaining and arguing. If you really want to get your partner back, you must open the door of dialogue, where the two are able to resolve their differences, express your feelings and opinions without losing control of your emotions.
2. Project your security
Forget about begging your partner, the worst thing you can do is show him your insecurity and attachment to him. When you tell your partner to “please come back,” it makes him feel guilty; and no one wants to go back to a person who makes them feel guilty.
You must project security, work on your self-esteem and detachment. Show yourself happy, radiant and bright, show your partner that you love him, and despite his absence, you feel good. Confident people are more attractive, so your partner won’t hesitate to come back to you.
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3. Set it free
A mistake is trying to control the couple even though they don’t live together. Both have the right to think and reflect on the causes and consequences that originated the discussion. If your partner has not yet left and you live together, you should also let him have his space, if you corner him, he will want to be away from you.
Let the fight cool down and clear your mind, so you can talk calmly and settle your differences.
Do not look guilty, because you will discover that both are, better focus on recognizing your own mistakes that will make you an incredible, special and unique person. Seek that your partner identify theirs and recognize their mistakes. Ask for forgiveness and be humble.
5. Invest time in yourself
When you resume your life and you do not take so much importance to your pain and sadness, you will see a positive change in you, get away from depression, exercise, change your image, spend your time pampering and loving yourself. Everything you do will be like a magnet that will attract the attention of your partner.
I can almost assure you that all marriages have fought at some time, it is part of learning to live with your partner. When there is love, communication, commitment on both sides, it is difficult for your relationship to fail.