Wearing a bikini doesn’t always reflect who you really are
Since ancient times, bikinis were prohibited for being too scandalous and provocative, however, fashion has left those beliefs behind and apparently the smaller it is worn, it is usually more attractive and sensual for some women, since they reflect confidence, beauty and security in them. But not all that glitters is gold, as the popular phrase goes, sometimes too much teaching can be counterproductive and does not show who you really are.
Even if you don’t agree, appearance does matter; There are many studies of social psychology that point to the formation of impressions “how they see you they treat you”, it is a hasty judgment on the qualities of unknown people to decide the behavior patterns that we should follow. Therefore, we cannot reflect what we are not.
Paola Beher, image consultant, ensures that the wardrobe influences 100% in the treatment that a person can receive. For this reason, it is important to ask yourself what do you want to project when you wear a mini bikini?
Without judging anyone about wearing a bikini or not, it is important to know why it does not reflect your personality.
Attractive vs vulgar
Many women do not mind criticism, since they have too much security and high self-esteem. However, you do not need to reflect vulgarity by showing more than necessary, you can feel attractive and sensual by letting the imagination of anyone who looks at you fly. Leave for you and your partner, the secret of intimacy, where only you can feel free, safe and confident to show yourself as you are.
You expose yourself to all kinds of malicious comments
Some women complain of being sexual objects of men, however, it seems that they do everything to receive disrespect, since they wear very reduced bikinis with deep necklines and with parts of their buttocks totally exposed. According to what was published in Maria Marin, they confirm that the way you dress will be the intention with which a man approaches you. If you want to have a formal and stable relationship, it is recommended to dress with elegance and class, it is not about dressing completely covered, but about looking attractive, using clothes that conform to your size, body and make you feel comfortable.
Your outer beauty must be equal to the inner
Do not be fooled, your outer appearance should show how you feel inside, dress in a way that projects who you are, so you will be perceived as such. It may be that you want to put on that bikini because it is important for you to reflect to the world how healthy you are, but that your actions match your self-love and your ideals.
Caution on social media
Like it or not, we are all exposed to good and bad comments through social media. If you don’t want to be the main theme of the memes, it is better that you take care of how you dress and what you want to project. Many times self-esteem is seriously affected by reading comments from people with bad intentions and who only seek to harm people without having to know them. Therefore, when you choose to wear a mini bikini, keep in mind that at any time you can be teased. I’m sure, you don’t want to attract attention that way.
It is your decision and choice, no one can judge you when wearing a bikini, just keep in mind that you must correctly project who you really are. Learn to be beautiful, attractive and sensual, without having to show the world your privacy.