10 Things Your Husband Will Never Do To You If He Really Loves You

We must first admit that sometimes even when we love someone we can make mistakes. However, most of these mistakes happen after one of these ten things you would never do if you really love her.

We must first admit that sometimes even when we love someone we can make mistakes. However, most of these mistakes happen after one of these ten things you would never do if you really love her.

When you really love someone, that person always comes to mind before your own pleasure or “happiness”; When your feelings for that person are not strong enough, or doubts are starting to appear, you come first. The experts say that there are 10 things that if you avoid, is not just a sign that you really love her, but that will take you to have a more stable relationship, lasting and happy.

10 things you should NEVER do if you call your feelings for her love

1. Keep part of the truth or camouflage it

Secrets (of any kind) in marriage are the magic potion to destroy it. It doesn’t matter what you’re lying about, how small the lie is, or what information you’re not disclosing to your wife. If you are hiding things from him, you are on the wrong track.

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Couples lie to each other or hide silly things like how much they tipped at the restaurant, and yes, it doesn’t make sense, but we still do it and it’s just a way to take the first step to a bigger deception.

2. She entrusted it to you and you disclosed it

Your partner must be your best friend and what she tells you must be one hundred percent confidential and must die on your mind. We have all experienced at least once in our lives what it feels like to entrust something to someone and for them to disclose it, the damage that it can cause, sometimes, can be irreparable. If you love her, what she entrusts to you must remain in their hearts.

3. Losing your temper in front of people and embarrassing them (this also has to do with the love you feel for yourself)

Believe me, I know what it feels like to be dazed and have to fight with yourself so as not to react at the same moment no matter who you are and where you are. But when it comes to the person you love, you should NEVER react irrationally and disrespect them. If you love her and you love yourself, you must control your anger or anger; When you embarrass or disrespect the person you love, you are also disrespecting yourself (we all remember that friend or family member who embarrassed his wife at that party).

4. Stop taking care of her

One of the great reasons we humans enjoy being in a relationship and why we get married (aside from the need to procreate), is to protect and care for someone other than ourselves. Protecting, worrying, and caring for your wife are signs of being in love with her; otherwise, it is the indication that you don’t really love her.

5. Turn fondling into a reward because she ‘did something for you’

Intimacy and physical affection in a couple should be given freely, simply because it is part of the love that exists between the two. If you do not feel the desire to be with her or to give her a hug or a kiss without her asking, it is just a sign that your feelings for her are not love.

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6. Disrespecting your family

No matter how bad your family be to you or no matter how much damage you think they do to your wife, you should never disrespect them. They will always be her family, she cannot divorce them, but she can divorce you. As a husband, you must protect her, but that does not mean that you can disrespect her family members. It is more or less like the phrase my grandmother used to say: “Do what I say, not what I do”, if she wants to disrespect her own family, it is her choice because it is her family, but if you love her, you should never cross that line.

7. Turn their achievements and their lives into a competition

They say that competing is healthy, and I think it is, but in the right place, time and with the right person. The competencies in marriage are a resounding NO. If you love her you will motivate her to surpass herself, to take on new challenges and you will be there to encourage her to reach the goal. If you don’t love her, her achievements will annoy you, if she earns more than you, she will embarrass you. When you are in a relationship, the achievements of both, add points for the same team and it does not matter who accumulated them.

8. You let her carry all the load

Marriage is not 50 and 50, marriage is 100 and 100. She is not in charge of all or half, they are both in charge of keeping their “marriage business” running. If she cannot do something that was in charge of her, you are there to fix it, to jump into position and relieve her. If you love her, the burdens will always be yours, if not, you will play your own game.

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9. You put yourself in situations where you know they can end badly

If you have read any of my other articles, then you are familiar with the phrase my grandmother used about “never be tempted.” The fact of marrying someone does not mean that as by magic we cancel our tendency to admire something that is beautiful, the important thing is how we do it and what we do about it. Don’t put yourself in situations where you spend time alone with co-workers who you think are attractive (you wouldn’t want to find out that your wife does the same at work). If you love her, you will run from those types of situations as fast as you can, if not, what you will run will be the limits.

10. You never acknowledge your mistakes

When you love someone, acknowledging that you were wrong about something is one of the most sublime ways to show that you love them more than yourself. On the contrary, if your pride is greater than your desire to ask for forgiveness, you are still in love with your own ego.

Love her as if your life depended on that, forgive her as if you were wrong, forget as if your love for her was only capable of storing the good, take care of her as if your life were the one in danger, caress her as if from your warmth Depending on her breath, respect her like the most delicate flower and do not risk her for a second of madness.

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